Saturday, 2 July 2016

Week 21 ¦ The beginning of the end ¦ Professional and Personal Development


Week 21 brought around the week for each group to carry out their second planned activity for the class. 
On Monday the first group had organised a type of scavenger hunt in the Aarhus town. We all met at VIA University to get our first instructions. Here we were ordered to climb all the way to the top of the building (which believe me is not something you want to do at 9am!) to locate a map which gave us directions to follow. After following the map, carrying out the different tasks along the way, a visit to AROS museum and a trip to the Viking museum we ended up back at the botanical gardens. 
Here we had time to reflect on our views of the day, how we worked as a team and our overall perception of the activity. In my opinion I found the activity a really good one; it gave us the opportunity to see parts of the town we never knew existed even after almost four months! 
However, the weather didn’t hold up for us to be running around the town which was the only downfall, but still a good day overall. 

Later on Monday night we all gathered in Jessica’s flat to have dinner together and watch a film, however with the MANY different preferences, we never decided on one and instead the Irish picked a quality programme to show everyone else…Father Ted. Much to our disappointment, it didn’t go down very well because we couldn’t get subtitles and if I even struggle sometimes to understand a strong Southern accent, our international friends had no hope!




On Tuesday, it was my group’s activity. We had planned an activity that incorporated coping mechanisms for stress and to promote mental health and well-being. Thankfully it wasn’t raining so we took to the botanical gardens and began our day with some yoga and meditation. After everyone was relaxed, we encouraged them to partake in some games, the first being Kings, a game quite similar to dodgeball. Then we went back to yoga and some more meditation time, then finished up with a game of rounder’s, something that was actually a difficult concept to explain to our class but it ended up being quite successful. Our aim was to give our class a day for relaxing and having fun and I think we managed to do so rather effectively.

Once my activity was over and done with, we had made previous plans with Dr John to meet for lunch downtown, so that’s where we headed next. We arranged to meet at the train station and go to a little restaurant the girls and I had stumbled across one evening. Dr John informed us that he just wanted to grasp an idea of how we were getting on in University and our course, difficulties we had encountered and the general gist of how we got on living in Denmark. The other girls and I couldn’t speak any more highly than we did of our time in Aarhus and I think Dr John was more than pleased to hear that we had survived this long without any problems and were continuing to make the most of our experience and enjoy the rest of the time we had here.


On Wednesday it was the third group’s activity, and this involved an insight into the nutritional content of different foods that we eat every day, our lifestyle habits and general health and well-being. I can say now that after this activity I was truly enlightened by the consequences of bad diet and lifestyle, and not only was it a enjoyable day but I can honestly say I learnt a lot.
Unfortunately Wednesday wasn’t all good; it also brought about the beginning of saying our goodbyes to our classmates. It was Cristina’s last day and no matter how hard we all tried to ignore it, when the time game it brought an overwhelming sense of sadness. We knew this was the start of what we had to face over the coming week and there was no way to avoid it. We sent Cristina on her way, with lots of hugs and best wishes and although it was hard we had to keep thinking that, it’s a good thing that we all had the opportunity to meet each other and an even better thing that we made some great friendships!


On Thursday it was the turn of the last group’s activity, beforehand we got wind that the activity was mainly reflection based and so I turned up to VIA expecting the day to be quite, sorry to say, but mundane. How wrong was I?! This activity was by far the best to end on, we all got the chance to say our bit about our time in Denmark and the amazing experiences we all had together and although it got very emotional at times, it was heart-warming to hear everyone’s story about the fears they overcame coming to Denmark and how they are leaving an all-round better individual, and I’m so glad to say, that I felt exactly the same.

Later that evening, we all gathered at Dorte’s house for a BBQ to prepare for our final goodbyes to the tutors on Friday. It was a great evening, filled with reminiscing over the past four months, laughs and of course more Øl bowling! Everyone was in a good mood from the day’s activity and the night had such a relaxed atmosphere, we were all just appreciated the good times we had left together and ensuring we were treasuring the moments that would later turn into memories.









On Friday it was the long awaited graduation day! The tutors each gave their insight into their experiences with us and praised us on becoming such a close-knit group that they were sure would continue to be life-long friends. We got shown a presentation of photos, Álvaro gave none other than a hilarious speech and Lea’s broke all our hearts with her rendition of ‘With a little help from my friend’s’. After we were awarded with our diploma’s, we filled ourselves with the spread the tutors had laid out for us. Sadly again this was not a completely happy day as we had to say goodbye to Evelyne and Joliene who were off back to Belgium, after more hugs and well-wishes we left the University together for the last time.




Not wanting to spend a minute without each other we all made our way to Paolo’s that evening for yet another BBQ and to celebrate our graduation, we all went to Skjoldhøj bar together that night.


On Saturday, we decided to host a formal dinner together in Jessica’s flat, for the ceremonious giving out of our message notebooks, personalised books that everyone in the class had wrote a little message in. Yet again, the evening brought sadness as we had to say goodbye to our good friends, Ana and Lea. It was a very emotional farewell but they both assured us that it would be no time until we saw them again!




‘The two hardest things to say in life are hello for the first time and goodbye for the last time.’ – Moira Rodgers


On Sunday, we gathered to bring some happiness to the group and to forget the inevitable that was happening in the next few days and the best way we thought to do this was through a good game of Pictionary! The week ended on such a high and I was glad to have a distraction from the looming moment I had to say goodbye, not only to my new friends but to the country and town I had now grown so fond of.








References




No comments:

Post a Comment